It was yesterday, the update moved me soo much and l felt our believing men should hear this.... As much as we like to advice each other to exercise tripple patience,persevere to a fault and let go of many things in that ldeal home, our thoughts are to maintain peace, tranquility and to humbly ourselves for the sake of Allah and perhaps for our men to know for fact we are ideal Muslimah whose Jannah she wouldnt toy it........ The pain engulfed the heart, the troubles became heavy on heart, the unpleasant moment attract more ache and the vacuum has caused serious depression a physiological trauma which only Allah Taala cld cure...... l had like to call our attention! Brothers: She married to you as a lovely zawj, she accepted to support you during the thick and thin of your lifes, to be there when u needed comfort, when no one cld see ur pain, she was there, during the good and bad seasons, she was kind, submissive, humble, polite, respectful, loving and caring. ... She cated for your kids, she thought them the reason why paradise is a must and why hell is a worst abode, she carried ur kids for a complete nine months, she suffered both day and night, do u remember those times, she had to visit one hospital to the other, those time she vomited every single things she aet,(Hyperemesis gravidarium) the labor pain,the laceration she had gotten for ur baby to survive to be nourished with oxygen, for she knows u both wanted to be happy. Alas, Do she really deserved to be treated this way? Do she really deserved to be dealt with without care? Will u continue with the silent killing? Where is that piety? Its so worrisome as our sisters are speaking up in tears, our heart are so heavy, as to when will this altitude stop? There complain includes that, men shld pls fear Allah and treat them well, they had mentioned some of our men only act good outside home, they got too angry over trivial issues, they forcefully want them to have a share from the home responsibilities, and if they refused its a big problem,many woman cant remember when last her hubby bought her a simple underwear. .....yet they had said we always adviced them to be patience. ....their question was when will the trauma stop? We agreed we are neither perfect nor faultless, however we want a change.....some of our sisters wishes to practice their religion more better than this, but the husband isnt supporting ... At this moment,we suggest brothers shld have an Avenue(BROTHERS ONLY ) where- in issue affecting the home can be discussed, perhaps correction can be made, and training /counseling can be offered to the weak minds and for the strong minds to remain steadfast and for us all to fear Allah all times in our dealings especially with our wifes and children. ... May Allah pls ease our affairs and accept this from me as an act of lbadah aamiyn! OVER TO US BROTHERS. ..... Let hear from us , sisters let be calm when commenting, we can speak up but politely pls...... Assalamu alaykum warahmatullah wabarakhatuhu
Posted on: Sat, 15 Mar 2014 13:58:44 +0000
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