Its official, I am now an orphan. No father. No mother. No sisters or brother. This also means no more play-dates with Caden and the twins. This is the worst part of it all. A 20 year stupid notion or the baby elephant in the room has now grown so big that I can see it 40 miles away. The falling out I had 20 years ago with my brother also haunts this delicate family crisis. There are those who believe that our falling out has to do with another person however, nothing could be farther from the truth. The only reason I disowned him was because of him and him alone. Because of his Im better than you attitude and his blatant disrespect towards me that I finally had enough of. The only way I can see for things to be resolved is if my mother and sister seek counseling for their fantasy beliefs, and get back into reality. And when they finally come around and believe my word over their stupid notions. They are the ones who created this elephant and they are the only ones who can erase it. There is nothing more I can do or say and my patience has run out after two decades. I just cant ignore the situation anymore. Life is too short to continue being a part of other peoples stupidity. Even if they are blood. Family to me isnt always blood but rather whom I choose to carry in my heart, And if my own mother and sister think I am a liar then I can no longer carry them in my heart. As the great Tina Turner once said .... Whats love got to do with it? ... As far as I am concerned, trust and respect are more important than love. In fact, I believe you cant feel love for someone without trust and respect. They dont seem to trust or respect me anymore and .... I dont know why. I picked the wrong day to quit drinking. youtu.be/Pu8KFlfzk3Y
Posted on: Sat, 10 Jan 2015 03:27:16 +0000
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