Its scary to be completely vulnerable to someone, especially if you were hurt in the past. Your walls are high and your bricks are thick. Nobodys busting through. But you know something -- life is too short not to be vulnerable. Take those risks for someone you love. Were always going to get hurt, whether through a breakup or through death of our loved ones. Theres no stopping it either. But it hurts more to be closed up. I closed myself up for a very long time after being hurt. I pushed so many good people away and ended up feeling very lonely -- even if there were many acquaintances around me. I didnt feel connected. I felt like I lost myself over a hurt that I wasnt allowing myself to get over. I became bitter, and with that, I started hating myself. I started feeling insecure and scared. I started blaming everybody else for what people did to me in the past. It all had a ripple effect. The day I opened up -- the day I became vulnerable, was the day I felt free. It was the day I allowed someone else to love me. It was the day I allowed myself to love someone in return, even if...I got hurt again. And wow, its such a scary feeling. The one thing I learned is that we have to do things in fear, or well never do them at all. ----read more of the article by clicking on the image or link below. By the way...Facebook has changed the way it shows posts in your news feed. In order to receive all our posts, make sure to select Get Notifications from the Like button drop down menu. Thanks! debrapasquella/2014/12/philophobia-do-you-have-it.html?spref=tw #relationships #heartbroken #vulnerability #love #trust #foundationoflove #marriages #breakups #divorce #fear #anxiety
Posted on: Wed, 10 Dec 2014 15:54:33 +0000
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