Ive always seen love as the very tool that binds humans, Some relationships are just not meant to be due to the structure OF the two minds trying to make or keep the heart come TOGETHER....in that case, Even after a break up, my stand on love is that if youre being real and true to yourself, God, and the ppl u know u love. ......once there is a realization that u r not meant to be together, That doesnt mean that love has to ends.....I think it just shifts ans like all love....even with family members....it takes time, willingness, forgiveness, maturity and the understanding to let go and let God! Some ppl take longer than others to realize this....this can be a frustrating thing....but I think its just God testing your patience and seeing how receptive u r to His/Her trials and tribulations! Out of anger or hurt or sadness or surprise....sometimes the frustrations can make the tongue express hate towards the one u love. ....thats on you! U gotta be bigger and apologize and move on with an open mind! If love ever turns to real hate....its due to pure ignorance.....or even the unknown fact that who u gave your heart to JUST NEVER loved you! As human beings....not just blacks.... We must learn to embrace that He made us strong and resilient and we must embrace our abilities to handle struggles....no matter how unwanted it is......struggle brings progress..... Somehow, ppl have gotten sso lazy that they willing to throw a blessing That God gave them away out of fear of struggle.... Then bitterness can set in... Then in the bitter state, before you give yourself time to heal as demanded by God, U just make rash decisions and make up new rules to give yourself....which can lead u astray for a long time if not for the rest of your life! I think this sounds like great advicw....do u? But I dont have it all together because in part....a lot of this I already knew....but what Ive been through recently has given me the insight to connect it together for my future..... So....No! Im not all that smart, Ans Im not telling anyone how to think or what to do, Im simply expressing my new found ideology to you......something I wish I would have had say.......ten years.....even 15years ago.... But I live with no regrets......not whole heartedly. .....meaning.. .....my now known self mistakes that Ive reflected on......I wish sometimes I would have reflected better and earlier......but, Im becoming the man God wants me to become on His time, Im not becoming who I want to be on my time, For yes, I have free will, But its like a video game, a decision can have an outcome on how it ends. .... But in the end..... Once I tried and tried again, Im going to be victorious! Its finding that match thats my issue..... So..... For now..... Im ALL about my kids! She can look for me too! Y I gotta do all the hunting while these women have all this power now? Im a good man, When one can see that....it will be what it will be! Till then, Im about giving my love to my kids.....teaching him to be a man and show him how to avoid the traps, Teaching my girls how not to get trapped up by the wrong man and give them all the confidence they need! Real shit!
Posted on: Thu, 30 Oct 2014 23:42:11 +0000
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