Ive never been the person to tell a friend something that I didnt feel was my absolute best advice or honesty. Because of that, I dont have many friends. I wont tell you that everything is going to be okay, or that things will change. I ask you what you are going to do to change or improve the situation, offer you suggestions, and give you an outsiders opinion on the situation. Ill make a promise to keep your secrets, unless your secrets will hurt another friend of mine. I hold my friends responsible for the truly bad things they do, and im not afraid to point out that sometimes they are wrong. Ill defend my friend whenever they are talked about badly, but if what another person says is true I cant disagree. If I say something about my friend to another group of people to vent, you can bet that Ive already told my friend this to their face. If my friends were in danger, nothing could stop me from going to wherever they are to help them out. If they didnt have a job, id help them look for one. If they didnt have food, id make them a meal. If they didnt have money, id pay for them. I am patient with my friends, and it takes me a while to get truly mad. I will of course, confront them with how I feel about something that has hurt my feelings, but it wont turn into an arugment until ive been offended repeatedly. If my friend lies to me, and comes clean, I forgive them. If they lie to me, and I find out myself, I crucify them. I always give my friends the pleasure of being themselves, even on their worst day. Get angry, yell, be sad, and show the negative side of yourself with me and ill appreciate you. Knowing that you share all of your emotions with me, makes me feel special. I also want you to know that you are special and that I love you, even if youre being ugly. Im emotionally ugly too sometimes, and were both truly radiant when were not. Dont ever be afraid to tell me your problems, or show me youre vulnerable, it doesnt make you look weak. It makes you stronger than most people. My friends are my world, I will accept them for whoever they are but will hold them accountable just as I would expect them to do for me. Friends to me, are my family. Losing one is never pretty, its a sad and emotional process. Between spouting out the most hurtful things to make them feel the pain im going through, to crying for days on end. To anyone who wonders what my frienship is like, its very real. Its deeper than you could imagine, none of it is superficial to me. Friendship is the most valuable relationship, aside from being a sister, I will ever have. Of course I will find someone to love one day, but to me, even romantic love is more temporary than a true friendship. So keep that in mind before you befriend me, because thats what youre signing up for and I know most of you couldnt handle it as much as you year for an honest person in your life.
Posted on: Wed, 12 Nov 2014 04:25:03 +0000
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