I’m here in my home town of Vancouver, BC Canada sitting in a - TopicsExpress



          

I’m here in my home town of Vancouver, BC Canada sitting in a Starbucks writing to you on a Monday morning. I’m drinking my Green Tea and thinking of the 3 Invisible Signs that keep business owners stuck, frustrated and confused on how to grow their business. Fear Of Rejection. Fear Of Rejection. Fear Of Rejection. Okay, so maybe just one thing. Lol. But it’s TRUE right? In my first year of business this was really hard for me. I’ve learned to “manage” it now, since I can guarantee you it will never go away. I used to think… “If I talk to that person about my business, they probably won’t take me seriously because I’m not making much money myself!” “What if this person thinks I’m selling them, and the conversation gets weird!” I started digging into why this happens, and what I can do to overcome it. If you’re fearing rejection, it’s stemming from something deeper than just someone rejecting your business. You’re really fearing them rejecting you. Like the time you wanted to ask out that guy/ or girl and they shot you down. OUCH. Like the time you had a great idea in class at high school, raised your hand and shared your idea only to have the entire class and teacher laugh at you. STUPID IDEA. Like the time you wanted the brand new Barbie doll or GI Joe as a child and your parents told you, “No we can’t afford it.” I NEVER GET WHAT I WANT. Are you starting to understand? You’re walking around with an incredible business to change peoples lives while dragging behind you five suitcases packed with the fears of rejection from your past. Why? Because somebody shot you down. These are the invisible signs that you fear rejection. I call it our shadow beliefs. The great Carl Jung said, “the shadow is all the parts of ourselves we would rather not be.” In other words, you’ll avoid doing the “work” to sign-up people into your business because of the rejection from your painful past. Maybe you started your business because unconsciously you felt “Success will bring you happiness.” The truth is, until AND ONLY until you learn to dig into these invisible signs of your fear of rejection you’ll struggle to change your life. Continue Reading the 3 Invisible Signs You Fear Rejection... Ry PS: remember to subscribe to my free newsletter! ryanyokome/3-invisible-signs-you-fear-rejection/
Posted on: Tue, 05 Nov 2013 18:32:12 +0000

Trending Topics



Recently Viewed Topics




© 2015