Judging is one of the weakness in us. Some people have the greatest caliber of judging the other, without knowing the individual personally believing on hearsay. Why would one do that? Few days ago my friend and me were talking about it and here is what she had to say to me...:) Just a thought, Have I ever wondered less, why are we the way we are; angry, aggressive, revengeful, jealous. It almost feels we kind of had piñata loot when Pandora opened her box. So much anger that we are ready to kill the innocent, ready to judge others or ready to label someone. I am no saint. I am party to all these flaws and I can say one thing…my boat will capsize from the extra weight and number who accompany me. Have I ever given a chance to others without judging? Have I ever felt why me…as if it would have been better had the pain been hers or his. Have I ever said why not me, with the green horns of jealousy shining with a sparkle on my head? The innocent lives lost all around remind me how precious my life is and so is yours. If we can cry for a stranger in pain why do we feel, ‘serves her/him right, when people around us are suffering? It boggles my mind! I have come to a point in my life, where I am honestly going to confess, I want to hear or say nothing where anyone is judged. My life should not be defined as a critical human being but as a person who has come to terms with self and be ready to say all things have a reason. From the bottle neck of human history, my ancestors have come a long way. They walked the planets in thousands at one time and were reduced to so few that they could be counted by elementary school kids. Yes we are a teeming billion now and that is because we pulled it off together my friend. Can we not love each other, forgive each other and be reasonably accepting of each other now? Do we know what tomorrow holds for us? I believe there is a reason why we can’t tell future. If we could, many of us would try to fix our issues in the last few days just like we do our homework in the last few hours. The idea is not to fix it in the last few days…the idea is to live up to it forever. Can accepting all just the way they are be so hard? The idea is never to change self for others, also never try and change others. We have been designed uniquely for a purpose and for a good reason! Love and Peace. Suparna :)
Posted on: Thu, 31 Jul 2014 19:43:28 +0000