Just to anyone else so I dont have to explain myself and Dylans life. And telling us how were not set up right now. I have been thinking about all these things and i know its not perfect atm but i am definitely working on this. And plus its not as easy as it sounds, just being able to get a job, like Australia and the rest of the world are going through a recession, and theres barely any jobs for anyone and the las good job i had was back in august 2013, which i got fired from because i didnt go due to the fact Dylans mums house burnt down. And i was working there for 9 months, ive had lots of jobs too, and even with all these jobs on my resume and my Certificates i got through tafe and other training programs i still find it hard to get a job, experience means nothing these days and i should know. Like i am actually pretty set with all the early things, like everything this child needs as a baby, toddler and a little older than that and when theyre older which i still have time to make things a bit better and easier, its just everything takes time. Dylan did have a stable job and was working every day for a good few months, and then after all the abuse his boss used to give him he left, and then Centrelink told him he couldnt get any help from them for 8 weeks, in these 8 weeks Dylan has applied for so many jobs without call backs, he also worked at coles for a long period of time and had experience. Its just we cant help the fact that nowhere is hiring atm. I think after Christmas everything should clear up a bit for jobs but until then itll be a bit tight for work. I know youre not trying to have a go, its just i have already thought about all of these things, because i know its not just a baby, its a life and its going to be my responsibility for the rest of my life. And i will do everything that i think is best and what Ive learnt from my own parents, the good and bad ways to deal with how my child reacts and behaves. I know most parents are older and have a life more set up than myself and Dylan, it doesnt mean we cant make our way upto where we need to be, like we have our own place, and im very good with budgeting our money to buy things we need and still pay bills and buy groceries. Like who says any parent or family is perfect, its all about commitment and love and making sure you try and make it better for your kids and your own family. And we have the support of both my family and Dylans too. Were not going to rely on them for everything, but we can ask advice and for help if we really need it. I know this is such a long rant, its just we really have thought of everything, and we know its a big change into out lives and its forever.
Posted on: Wed, 17 Dec 2014 21:37:19 +0000
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