Just to quote & quote this good article courtesy of MuslimVillage Abd Al Wadood Feb 1, 2014 what is important in these discussions is to emphasize that men and women are different. therefore what seems normal to you might seem abnormal to your spouse. to make a marriage work such fundamental differences need to be respected and not mocked. for example in the article below point number 4 may seem strange to many men. we dont mind if our wives compare us to movie starts to be honest. but women do mind so that should be respected. and women shouldnt be judged on that. anyhow i feel that mens side of the story should be heard as well. so here we have as supplement to article below, the several things that husbands want from their wives: 1. a wife should really look after herself. if you are going to let yourself go then it is only going to complicate your life with your husband. so try and look your best whenever possible. look pleasing to your husband. its not that hard to do. 2. dont humiliate your husband when he displays an emotional side. it is often that women complain of emotionally detached husbands yet when they do display emotion they insult them by telling them they are acting like women or not being man enough. that should be avoided. 3. we hate it when wives want us to guess what they are feeling. if there is a problem then just talk about it without wanting your husband to guess what the problem is. 4. when men dont love their wives the wives stop respecting them. so men should show more love to their wives. however wives should also not make this a self-fulfilling prophecy and respect their husbands even if they seem to be less attached to you. 5. with the arrival of kids, husbands should still get some of your attention and should not be completely neglected. 6. Be kind to your husband. many men have difficulty in expressing themselves. if you are unkind then they will not confide in you many things which will cause problems in your marriage eventually. 7. dont be ungrateful to your husband whenever things get bad and remember he isnt perfect; yet has in the past done things to please you. so if you are a woman and find yourself tutting impatiently over this list then know that some men did the same when they read the article below. and both are wrong. unless there is mutual respect and acceptance of diverse needs there can never be a happy relationship.
Posted on: Tue, 10 Jun 2014 09:21:19 +0000
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