K, this is for all women and men....Im just about sick of people - TopicsExpress

K, this is for all women and men....Im just about sick of people asking me about oh what do I do when hes doing this or I cant believe she did this crap. Its very simple...women, if your man is distant then there is something bothering him, dont leave it alone and ignore it, ask him, he may not talk right away because men have this stupid this called ego and pride, but after he calms down hell open up, when he does then listen to him and talk back, that is called a conversation, and men, we all know when women are upset they usually show huge signs, wait for her to calm a bit and then ask her, shell usually open up right away and be more willing to talk, when she does dont disregard whatever she says on being a woman, shes pissed because there is something bothering her and you both need to come to a resolution before little things become a break up. next up, I hear all the the time a man should treat his woman like a queen which is very true, open doors for her, remind her shes beautiful, give her everything you can, but woman, if your man treats you like a queen then maybe you should treat him like a king, when hes had a rough day make him feel/remind him how you care for him and when he needs something from you, then do your best to give it to him. Its easy a relationship is very give and take, dont just take because the person who is doing all the giving is gonna feel like all that happens on his/her side is giving and we all need a little consideration every now and again...,and men....really how hard is it to say good morning beautiful? Or even youre gorgeous? And for christ sake you can open a door for her every now again again, if shes cold then give her your coat or put her hands on your neck to warm them up, treat her like shes the only person in the room and keep your eyes on her, not the big breasted waitress...next, men when the boys are around that shouldnt mean you totally ignore her and do whatever it is that the guys are doing, she may not want to be included in whatever stupid things us guys do, but for gods sake if the woman you love calls your name its because she needs you, and if your woman needs you then thats what comes first, that doesnt make you whipped or anything, who cares what your dumbass friends think because when its all said and done you are in a relationship with her, not your friends. Women....peel your faces off the phone screen (I know men do it aswell and the same rule applies but most commonly its women) I know your friend just got her nails done and he had blah blah blah at work so on and so fourth, but what it boils down to is that your man needs/wants attention aswell (even if they dont make it seem/act like they do) it goes back to that stupid who and pride thing....I know dinner was good/movie was good, how about enjoying it with the person your with rather then sharing the experience with everyone else? Last but not least I want to enforce the fact that women need to be constantly reminded about how they are the only person in your mind/eyes, otherwise she will feel ugly, and women, do the same for men, we dont need it as often but all men like there ego stroked every now and again, if other girls are doing it and your not then hell feel like you dont find him attractive and a small thing becomes a break up thing....show him as much as he shows you that he is the only person you want, hes face will change is the best way, I promise you that....anyways thats my rant, good luck to everyone and there relationships