||LIFE AFFAIRS WITH APOSTLE|| BEFORE YOU START ANOTHER RELATIONSHIP 2 Relationship should not be seen as a childs play. It takes wholesomeness and completeness to make a good choice. If you attempt to build intimacy with a person before youve done the hard work of becoming a whole and healthy person, every relationship will be an attempt to complete the hole in your heart and the lack of what you dont have. That relationship will end in disaster - Chip Ingram You dont rush into a new relationship just because the old one just ended. You may rush into it joyfully and you might as well rush out mournfully. So, before you learn relationship tips from another Hollywood or Nollywood movie, before you start a new relationship, before you start giving your destiny to another person, there are few things you need to know. These things are principles that help you navigate life easily. They are needed to achieve greatness and significance in life. 1. DISCOVER GOD Relationship is not mans idea, it is Gods and any relationship outside Gods standard would only lead to disappointment, resentment and bitterness. You have to fix your hope and dreams on God for fulfillment. Before you go into any relationship, you need to discover God for yourself. Gods discovery is the key to self discovery and self discovery, a key to life transformation. A key to discovering God is building a relationship with God. Relationship with God is not affiliated to your church/mosque attendance, it is not what your Pastor/Alfa told you about God, it is not being a worker in a building called house of God. It is a conscious STUDYING, MEDITATING and ACTING on Gods word. It is knowing God for yourself, it is speaking to God by yourself without your Pastor/Alfa, it is hearing God by yourself and it is acting on Gods word by yourself without persuasion. Your relationship with God teaches you to walk in love - Love that is other centered; a deliberate and honest giving up of oneself to another person without manipulations or games. In simple language, before you start another lovey dovey affair, you need to have known God, the manufacturer of your life and ask Him to take over the operation of your life. For without God, we are NOTHING! Until you find God, you may not know who exactly you are and how can you choose right when you dont know YOU? Stay Purified! © October, 2014 Matthew Femi Adedoyin Principal Consultant, Abstinence Icon adedoyinmatthew@yahoo +2347060826979 7A350EBA
Posted on: Mon, 13 Oct 2014 08:07:29 +0000
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