LOVED ONES EVENTUALLY SEPARATE Some people believe that the main purpose of life is to have a lot of family members and loved ones around them. They constantly seek to build the family network so that family becomes their refuge. All of us want to be loved, but because we are not very clear on what love is, we confuse it with attachment. We think that if people love us, we must be good; we must be worthwhile. So we do lot of things to get the love we need. But some time we must part from our loved ones. Everything that comes together must separate. Its impossible to be together forever. So either our lived ones die first or we do, or we part in another way. Realising that we can’t stay with our lived ones forever helps us have a better relationship with them when we are with them. We don’t get as attached to them and thus have far fewer unrealistic expectations that lead to conflict and disappointment. We don’t take our loved ones for granted as much and thus stop dumping our frustrations and anger on them. We stop seeing them as a projection of ourselves and accept them for the lovely human being they are. With less attachment and our relationship with them will also improve. - Unknow Sources
Posted on: Sun, 20 Oct 2013 08:46:32 +0000
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