Life can definitely beat the hell out of you. Some people let stress take over their lives. Even people with money have a hard time dealing with it. Some people say forget it....I dont want to live because of all of the stress. Quick little story. I remember talking to someone, and we were talking about people that commit suicide. They told me that her and her sister were talking, and her sister was saying that she was thinking about killing herself. Her reply to her sister shocked the hell out of me. She told her sister that if she killed herself, she would not go to her funeral. She said that she did not feel sorry for her, and that she just needed to get over it. I didnt respond to her....all I did was shake my head. She then asked me if I thought she did the right thing. I told her that Ive had numerous people tell me that they wanted to kill themselves. I also told her that I would never tell any of them what she said to her sister. She asked me what I said to them. This is what I said: you know, when people come to you like that, that means that they trust you. They are trying to reach out to you without actually having to ask for help. Telling your sister that you wouldnt come to her funeral did not help her. And To be quite honest with you, telling her to get over it, and that you dont feel sorry for her could have pushed her closer to her grave. What the hell is wrong with you? Your sister needs you. Do you know how awful you would feel if your sister really killed herself? Seriously...do you? From past experiences, the first thing I do when someone has told me this is to listen. I dont interrupt them. I dont try to finish their sentences for them. I listen. I let them get whatever they have to off of their chest. Sometimes, thats what people need. Some people are stressed out because they think nobody cares. They think nobody will listen and help them. Honestly, Im shocked that your sister is still alive. She confided in you. You Let her down. You need to make things right with her before its too late. You can save her life by listening to what she is going through. Then, you can give her the best advice that you can. Go make it right. People dont realize that not everyone knows how to deal with stress. Do you think I was wrong by my response to what she told her sister? Do you think that people that kill themselves are selfish, and they just need to get over what they are going through? This is a touchy subject. Someone may not agree with what you are saying, and thats fine. Please disagree without being rude on this one guys. Respect everyones comments. I cant wait to read them.
Posted on: Sat, 16 Aug 2014 00:34:16 +0000
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