Listening is a skill and unfortunately most of us doesnt have it. - TopicsExpress



          

Listening is a skill and unfortunately most of us doesnt have it. Its good sometimes to keep quiet, even if youve something to say, think twice, think before you leap. Most of what we say are problems may not be problems, but the main problem we dont know how to listen. Talk when youre angry or bitter then youll say things that youll forever regret. Youll destroy yourself and start blaming other people. If you read the book of Proverbs youll find out that people die out of talking too much. To me what counts is not what happens to me but what happens in me. We are more concern of what other people are doing to us than what we are doing to ourself. I said the problem with window washing is that the dirt seem to be from the outside whereas is from the inside. Dont be a talk of the town of out talking too much, one day youll talk to wrong people and you star thats guiding you will disappear forever. Dont talk about your problems everywhere you go but talk to your problem and give it to the Lord. Tell your problem how big is your God. When you talk about your problem you make it grow big, youll turn it from bad to worse. Maybe you think when you talk around about it, it will disappear, but youre wrong it will still be there, again the devil and demons will celebrate for having you. Nothing of great value is ever acquired without discipline. Anyway, what makes you different from other bad people that youre blaming by talking too much about what is troubling you? Bitterness imprisons life but love releases it. Anger and bitterness blinds life but love anoints its eye. Main problem with us is that we are quick in shifting and blaming other people for our own mistakes. Its difficult for us to say,#i_am_sorry! Sell pride for for peace. Go to the place of worship not to talk about sins of other people but confess your own sins, repend and sacrifice your life to God. There is always a tomorrow, do the right thing and keep on going doing what is right. Dont be afraid of your past because Jesus has forgiven you and you dont have a past all gone. Confess your sins and repend. Watch your thougths theyll become your words. Yes you can shift a blame and blame other people to make yourself look better or making yourself to feel better but that wont help you with anything because when you turn back your problem will still be there. Watch your words theyll become your actions. Your actions will become your habits. Anybody can change and be a better person. I believe in a change because I know Christ who changes lives. Its so sad to some of us because our situations became a problem because we didnt have sufficient resouces to meet them. Life is too short to be stressed and for regrets, moveon! We dont achieve what we want or we dont meet our major goals because we spend our time doing second things first. If you respect yourself and others youll stop bad naming everyone but youll surrender yourself to God fully. Let Him be your helper, your healer and your Saviour. Dont let the if onlys to grip your thoughts. The time is now, give your heart to God not to anyone. Dont be a crowd pleaser telling them of your own challenges, just take everything to the Lord in prayer. If you make small things a big issue then theyll be a big problem to you. Its not too late to repend. Be like a Prodical son, go back home because your Heavenly Father is waiting for you. Forget what the people think and say about you but just wonder what God knows about you. This is your day of deliverance, dont talk to me or to anybody about your situation but talk to God. Things are not bad as you think, there is still hope for you. Move on and pray up until something happens. Youre blessed and highly favoured. Have a blessed day!!!
Posted on: Sun, 29 Jun 2014 05:53:55 +0000

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