Love transforms and brings to surface everything that is unlike - TopicsExpress

Love transforms and brings to surface everything that is unlike itself. So in a loving relationship its not always going to be pretty, actually it can get really really ugly. A mirroring always takes place in relationships, everyone is simply another version of yourself and relationships serve as the biggest reflection of who you are. If there are any aspects of yourself that you do not like and have not accepted, or simply reject and refuse to face they WILL come up in your relationship. From a universal perspective this mirroring is essential, lots of learning takes place from coming face to face with who you are which serves expansion. The next time you get in an argument with your significant other and something about them really aggravates you ask yourself what is it about myself that I am unhappy with? because these aspects of your significant other that you do not like is just a reflection of the things that you are not happy with about yourself. Honestly though its not true love until you can fall in love with a person for exactly who they are in that moment and not who they potentially can be, but this can not happen unless you become a vibrationally match to this person and that can not happen unless you have learned to love and accept all aspects of yourself. So to attract a loving relationship, love yourself first, truly. If you are in a loving relationship and conflict arises remind yourself that you and your partner are simply helping one another grow and expand and that is actually a very beautiful thing, even if it doesnt feel that way in that moment.