MEN: THEIR CARING NATURE. Most times,Nothing can ordinarily independently change without other things causing them to change-Causes and effects. Men are naturally caring but such care is not visible and automatic like that of the ladies. Ladies may care without good reasons to do that but men care with reasons-Not just reasons but GOOD ones. Once men perceive a good reason, their caring nature will be unconsciously activated. They can spoil you with unexpected care when they are given reasons to. Men are rational thinking beings. Their emotions work hand in hand with their brains. Their emotions hardly function isolatively. If your man is not caring, you need to ask yourself some questions before concluding that he is not or he is stingy. For him to lavishly care for you, he must have the assurance of worthiness, security and appreciation. Men are good investors that weigh risk with benefits before making a move to invest. As funny as this may sound, care is an investment. It is an investment that need to yield outcome of appreciation, security and worthiness. Ask yourself, have i given him a genuine reason to care? Did i show appreciation the last time he did? Did i involve him in the assistance he offered before its expiration?Am i given him attention?Am i giving him security of caring wisely with my actions? How worthy am i to receive his care? Etc. Some of those sincerely self asked questions can give you the WHY behind his uncaring display. If he bought you a BB phone, you must not fail to ping him as often as possible daily. If he sent you a recharge card, you need to call him even after the immediate thank you call. (Not flashing him the next day or with an MTN please send me credit..) If he bought you a dress,shoe, or anything wearable let him be the first to see it in your body. If he sponsored your birthday, let him be there before the party starts. If he took you out, introduce him to your friends even without asking. If he bought you a gift, let him be actively involved in its usage. If he rented you an apartment, be mindful of who and who come to visit you. The instances cannot be exhausted here... Remember, there are men and there are boys. Dont expect a boy to do for you what is expected of a man. If after all said and done he still remain uncaring, take a very long walk and never return. Your man is not invincible. No matter how stiff he may be, the power and the key to his subjection to your desire are in your hands. Use them well, and you will see him being enslaved by your irresistible dispositions. #BI#
Posted on: Fri, 18 Jul 2014 19:13:04 +0000