MENNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNN, your thoughts? Dear Zane, Im currently struggling with a decision of whether to be with the mother of my child or not. Im a 23 year old male, Ive been dating my.. guess well call her my gf for about 7 months now and shes 4 months pregnant, I have feelings for her i do, but Im not sure i love her the way she loves me. When we first met she neglected her son, she partied every night, got high, didnt love him the way he needed to be, but she changed that to be with me, i told her she needed goals and ambitions if we had any chance of working, and that she had to treat her son better. From day one I treated him like my own, i loved him, he calls me daddy since his real father wants nothing to do with them and as awkward as it is sometimes because we havent been together long i love being called daddy, i did any and everything for her, whatever she asked no questions, but whenever i ask for anything she gets an attitude, i left a job that i was making about 209 dollars a month at to find something better, she has always disrespected me multiple times, making me feel like less of a man because i wasnt working even though when i was i did anything for her, she recently told me that it felt like she was taking care of two kids instead of one and that hurt because once i found out she was pregnant i joined the United states navy so that i knew her and my child would be taken care of, but she doesnt appreciate any of that, she told me i shouldve become a cop. Nothing i do is good enough, i would ask her to make phone calls to my recruiter for me because i had no phone and she told me shes not my Secretary. She quit 3 jobs while she was pregnant because she needed a break, i got upset because i found a job at a restaurant to make a little money until i leave in November, but i dont make enough to make sure her and the baby are taken care of while Im gone and i needed her help, she got upset that i wanted her to work. Idk what to do, she wants to make it work because i dont treat her the same, Ive gone thru so much with her, i started looking for appreciation in other women who admired what i do. I give her son a good role model, i love him, i treated her the way any woman would want to be treated but she talked down to me and always got upset over things that arent even my fault, everything was about her, and now that i do the same to her she wont let me leave because she wants us to work. But i dont want the same, am i wrong? MY RESPONSE: I am going to allow the men on my page to respond to this email in public and I am going to respond in private. I do not want anyones opinion to be tainted by mine.
Posted on: Mon, 14 Jul 2014 02:52:40 +0000
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