Maybe its hard to get people to do what you want because its your fault, not theirs. The mind is not capable of holding two opposing thoughts at the same time, yet we often try to motivate others by saying one thing, then doing something else completely opposite ourselves. This is called a disconnect where the mind hears one thing but sees something entirely different. We want to earn top dollars as a trainer, yet we dress, speak and groom like we are homeless people. You yell at your child to do his homework, yet he has never seen you sit and read quietly studying yourself. We get frustrated with our clients and push for them to lose weight and get into better shape, yet we are 20 pounds overweight, cant do 25 pushups and couldnt even contemplate a pull-up. You cant drive results in others unless your words match your actions and presence. It seldom matters what you say, but it always matters that what you say matches who you are and how you live. Simply put, you cant preach it if you dont live it.
Posted on: Fri, 23 May 2014 12:50:59 +0000
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