Men, seriously! You need to take note. This could seriously save your relationship now and in the future. Where attention goes, energy flows. Its February 2001 and Im sitting in the lounge with my wife. Shes got this massive book shed been reading on relationships for weeks. Im too busy pre-occupied about my work and how I could hit my targets next month. She shows me this book by Dr Phil (I think it was called Relationship Rescue) and pleads that I read it. She was talking nonsense. Theres nothing wrong with our relationship. You worry too much. Our relationship is perfectly fine. And, I left it at that. Was I stupid or what? Come on! The fact that she was reading a Dr Phil book on relationships should have rang alarm bells already. As much as I loved her, my attention was firmly on business, money, getting a big house and a better car. Stuff that most of us Neanderthal men do a lot. Id stopped paying attention or making much time for the one I loved. That relationship began to wither and waste away. Eighteen months later we were separate. A few months later we were divorced. Where attention goes, energy flows. It is all too easy to put the people with whom we wish to share our life with most a distant second to other activities. Yet, we act as if we are surprised when the relationship dies. It need not be that way. Yes. I have learnt that we have to make compromises. I prefer to call it co-promises. We jointly promise to walk hand-in-hand and create a new pathway to our destiny. It all starts with paying attention to your real intention. In a few weeks time, I wont have Dr Phil, but I will have some of the worlds greatest relationship experts joining me on the Soulmate Summit, which will take place online. It starts on 13th Feb at 6pm. I hope you can join me and discover ways to have the most amazing, fulfilling and loving relationship you can imagine. To the ladies reading this - I know you have - the attention bit? It applies to women, too! Please forward this message onto your male friends anyway. We need all the help we can get. Love and gratitude, Harun Rabbani
Posted on: Tue, 20 Jan 2015 10:16:51 +0000
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