“Messengers are easy to identify because they materialize as any event or person’s behavior that upsets us. We were invited to do our best not to shoot the messenger. Accordingly, we dismiss the messenger and in the same breath acknowledge that the value of the upsetting experience is in the message, not its carrier. We don’t blame the mail carrier for bills that are delivered, just as we don’t blame a mirror for what it reflects. Likewise, it’s pointless reacting to reflections of our unintegrated emotional charges.” – Michael Brown
Posted on: Sat, 26 Apr 2014 19:54:08 +0000