Moses Mwicigi wrote a new note: stop devorce. When I got home that night as my wife served dinner, I holding in hand and said, Ive got something to tell you. She sat down and ate quietly. Again I observed the hurt in her eyes. ... Suddenly I did not know how to open my mouth. But I had to let here know what I was thinking. I want a divorce. In raised the topic calmly. She did not seem to be annoyed by my words, instead she asked me softly, why? I avoided in question. This made here angry. She threw away the chopsticks and shouted at me, you are not a man! That night, we did not talk to each other. She was weeping. I knew she wanted to find out what had happened to our marriage. But I could hardly give here a satisfactory answer; she had lost my heart two Jane. I did not love her anymore. I just pitied here! With a deep sense of guilt, I drafted a divorce agreement wooden stated that she could own our house, our car, and 30% stake of my company. She glanced at it and then tore it into pieces. The woman who had spent ten years of here life with me had Become a stranger. I felt sorry for her wasted time, resources industry and energy but I could not take back what I had said for I loved Jane so dearly. Finally she cried loudly in front of me, Which was what I had expected to see on. To me here was cry actually a kind of release. The idea of divorce had wooden obsessed me for several weeks seemed to be firmer and clears now. The next day, I came back home very late and found here writing something at the table. I did not have supper but went straight to sleep and fell asleep very fast because i was tired after an eventful day with Jane. When I woke up, she was still there at the table writing. In just did not care so I turned over and was asleep again. In the morning she presented here divorce conditions: she did not want anything from me, but needed a months notice before the divorce. She requested that in that one month we both struggle to live as normal a life as possible. Here reasons were simple: our son had his exams in a months time and she did not want to Disrupt him with our broken marriage. This was agreeable to me. But she had something more, she asked me to recall how I had carried out here into bridal room on our wedding day. She requested that every day for the months duration I carry here out of our bedroom to the front door ever morning. I thought she was going crazy. Just to make our last days together bearable I accepted in odd request. In publican Jane about my wifes divorce conditions. . She laughed loudly and thought it was absurd. No matter what tricks she applier, she has to face the divorce, she said scornfully. My wife and I had not had any body contact since my divorce intention was Explicitly expressed. So when I carried out here on the first day, we both Appeared clumsy. Our son clapped behind us, daddy is holding mommy in his arms. His words brought me a sense of pain. From the bedroom to the sitting room, then to the door, I walked over ten meters with her in my arms. She closed here eyes and said softly, do not tell our son about the divorce. In nodded, feeling somewhat upset. I put down here outsidethe door. She went to wait for the bus to work. In drove alone to the office. On the second day, both of us acted much more Easily. She leaned on my chest. I could smell the fragrance of here blouse. I Realized that I had not looked at this woman carefully for a long time. In Realized she was not young any more. There were fine wrinkles on her face, her hair was graying! Our marriage had taken its toll on her. For a minute I wondered what I had done two here. On the fourth day, when I lifted her up, I felt a sense of intimacy returning. This was the woman who had given ten years of life here to me. On the fifth and sixth day, I Realized that our sense of intimacy was growing again. I did not tell Jane about this. It Became Easier two carry here as the month slipped by. Perhaps the everyday workout made me stronger. She was Choosing what to wear one morning. She tried on quite a few dresses but could not find a suitable one. Then she sighed, all my dresses have grown bigger. I suddenly Realized that she had grown so thin, that was the reason why I could carry in more Easily. Suddenly it hit me ... she had buried so much pain and bitterness in her heart. Subconsciously I reached out and touched here head. Our son came in at the moment and said, Dad, its time to carry mom out. To him, seeing his father carrying his mother out had Become an essential part of his life. My wife gestured to our son to come closer and hugged him tightly. I turned my face away because i was afraid I might change my mind at this last minute. I then holding here in my arms, walking from the bedroom, through the sitting room, to the hallway. Here hand surrounded my neck softly and naturally. I held tightly in one piece, it was just like our wedding day. But here much lighter weight made me sad. On the last day, when I held here in my arms I could hardly move a step. Our son had gone to school. I held in tightly and said, I had not Noticed that our life lacked intimacy. I drove to office .... jumped out of the car swiftly without locking the door. I was afraid any delay would make me change my mind ... I walked upstairs. Jane opened the door and I said two here, Sorry, Jane, I do not want the divorce anymore. She looked at me, astonished, and then touched my forehead. Do you have a fever? She said. I moved here hand off my head. Sorry, Jane, I said, I will not divorce. My marriage life was boring probably Because she and I did not value the details of our lives, not because we did not love each other anymore. Now I realize that since I carried here into my home on our wedding day I am supposed to Hold here until death do us apart. Jane seemed two suddenly wake up. She gave me a loud slap and then slammed the door and burst into tears. In walked downstairs and drove away. At the floral shop on the way, I ordered a bouquet of flowers for my wife. The salesgirl asked me what to write on the card. I smiled and wrote, Ill carry you out every morning until death do us apart. That evening I arrived home, flowers in my hands, a smile on my face, I run up stairs, only to find my wife in the bed - Dead. My wife had been fighting CANCER for months and I was so busy with Jane two even notice. She knew that she would die soon and she wanted two save me from the whatever negative reaction from our son, in case we push thru with the divorce. - At least, in the eyes of our son- Im a loving husband .... The small details of your lives are what really matter in a relationship. It is not the mansion, the car, property, the money in the bank. These create an environment conducive for happiness but can not give happiness in comfy rooms. So find time to be your spouses friend and do those little things for each other that build intimacy. Do have a real happy marriage! If you do not share this, nothing will happen to you. If you do, you just might save a marriage. Many of lifes failures are people who did not Realize how close they were to success when they gave up
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