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My conversation with a immature self destructive person. This is the same person is blocked for being disrespectful to Vets on my page. Thursday, November 13, 2014 12:23 PM Marsha Ricdardson : I really wish I had you to talk too. How do you do it mike? I mean I know noriko & maki Is your family but do you ever feel alone? I have a house full & I feel so along. \\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\ Michael Miller : Im not the best person for you to talk to about this stuff. You wont like what I say. But, if you want to know what I do different from most people. As soon as I realize that I have a problem and that I am feeling sorry for myself. I think about the Nazi holocaust survivors. I read their stories. Then I feel ashamed of myself for ever feeling sorry for myself in the first place. I still may be mad, and my problem is still there, but I focus less on feeling sorry for myself and more on what I have to do to move forward and put my problem behind me. \\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\ Thursday, November 13, 2014 6:13 PM Marsha Ricdardson : Ok Mike. See you dont know the whole story behind whats going on. You dont know the bull shit I gotta go through. Yes people has had it worse then me but it doesnt make it right on how I am treated. Its not something I could put behind me. Its in my face every day. I just thought I could reach out to my brother for support. Dont worry about it. You arent here & you dont understand. Thanks anyways. \\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\ Thursday, November 13, 2014 7:02 PM Marsha Ricdardson : Im sorry. I didnt mean to get upset. But you dont know what I have to deal with. I shouldnt even said anything to you. But Mike when Sierra died I was diagnosed with depression. Unlike you I cant get my medicine that I need. How would you be without the medicine you take for your? Anyways Im sorry I shouldnt of came to you \\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\ Friday, November 14, 2014 2:40 AM Marsha Ricdardson :I realize that we havent been around each other in a lot of years. That closeness a brother & sister should have I guess we dont have it. When I wrote you that all I wanted was for you to be my big brother & to be there for me. To SEE that your little sister Is hurting. Mike I been through stuff that no one knows about. Im not arguing or trying to start anything. I JUST WANT MY BIG BROTHER BACK. I used to be able to tell you anything now Im scared anything I tell you will piss you off. /////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////// Nov 14, 2014 8:35 AM Marsha Ricdardson : Your comments about my medications was not just disrespectful to me, you disrespected all veterans. The medication I take, wouldnt help you. Problem solution doesnt come in pills. This is what I do. (I wirte all this stuff down) 1. Recognize the problem and define the problem. (what is the problem?) 2. Gather facts and make assumptions. (facts, statements about the problem known to be true. Assumptions, Statements used to replace necessary but missing or unknown facts) 3. Define end states and establish criteria. (criteria, used gather valid solution. Compare all solutions) 4. Develop a possible solution. (Brain storming) 5. Analyze and compare solutions. (used to predetermine evaluated critera, go back to step 3 if necessary) 6. Select best solution. (make a decision) 7. Analyze solution for effectiveness.(may take time) One of the roadblocks I face with problem soulution is self pity. I told you I do to get past that. This problem solving strategy works. Ive taught it in the military. I used this same problem solving process with you just now. My best solution was just to give you this knowledge. Use it. This will help you. Goggle problem solving steps for more information. Respectively, Michael \\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\ Friday, November 14, 2014 10:49 PM Marsha Ricdardson : I did not disrepect You or any other vet. You need to stop saying that.I said nothing about that & the only med I was talking about Is the one for depression. Dont give me any more advise. Im not reading this. Unless you need something about that money just dont worry about me. Its like you do
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