My husband and I have been married over ten years. We responded to a friend request from his daughter who he did not raise, only paid child support. We have chatted through Facebook and phone conversations for the last year or so. She friended a few of my family members, which I was completely okay with. When she finally came for the holidays, she and my brother announced they were moving in together. They both have kids. He does not take care of his child who is being raised by another family member of ours. She has five children which he is playing father of the year to, while he is not worried about his own. While she was here we had to constantly tell her to clean her childrens snotty noses or after herself, feed them, interact with them and sooooo much more. She is not employed. She fed herself without her children. The only time she was not lounging around was when she was getting ready to go out with my brother (WITHOUT THE KIDS). She did not bother to get to know my husband. The only actual conversation they had was when we did paternity testing for closure of his past. He thinks she is not his child, because her mom had him on child support, another guy on her birth certificate, and another raising her. Now both have died in accidents and my husband is the last man standing. First impressions arent everything but my first time meeting this girl was a nightmare. She has hurt my husbands feelings by saying she wanted to meet him. We hosted her and her kids in our home for two weeks but she has spent absolutely no time with him only my brother. I was offended due to her possibly being my step daughter and choosing to date my brother. All kids involved are confused on their relationship to everyone. She is sister to my children but now they are speaking of marriage so she will also become their aunt. I will be both aunt and gma to her children. They drove over 800 miles to drop her kids at home with her roommate. They are now returning to our city. Neither has their own residence. Am I wrong for not liking this woman who may be my husbands child? Am I wrong for not allowing her to stay in our home when they return? She threw hints about pregnancy (five previous, so no fertility issues). What would be my relation to that child? I worry about my niece being around this type of female. I just need some friendly words of advice of dealing with this situation without the Maury or Jerry Springer Show. It has become a nonstop joke with my family and friends who we introduce her to. TIA!!
Posted on: Mon, 05 Jan 2015 03:00:40 +0000
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