Myself & many other life long friends are really starting to feel seriously excluded from information & consideration regarding the loss of one of our life long & dearest friends who we loved with all our hearts & this exclusion is for absolutely no apparent reason & seriously adding to our already huge grief. Losing loved ones is extremely difficult & should bring people who have known each other forever together, not separate them further. Life & circumstance take people onto many different paths & distance & time spent apart do not mean there is any less love for friends. In fact if distance & lack of contact makes someone lose that love, then that love must be questionable in the first place. I have people dear in my heart who I may not see for a year & when I do see them, its just pure pleasure & the love we have is every bit as strong as it always was. Being excluded from being told about someone you love being extremely ill is cruel & then being made to not feel welcome to express sorrow & condolences is heartbreaking. Love is absolute & everyone has the right to express their love & sorrow, its not an exclusive club & treating like an exclusive club & alienating life long friends who are on the floor with grief is extremely disrespectful & really not a good look. Is this really what our dearly departed friend wouldve wanted? I think not!
Posted on: Sat, 20 Sep 2014 14:55:05 +0000