Never dismiss or undermine the one who was there when the rest of thr world shut the door on you. Be mindful to the one who was on battlefields and escaping land mines. Be respectful to the one who helped when others were too busy. Life is just know fair weathered souls are plentiful buy loyal souls are far and few cherish them .boyfriend who sadly is dying from stage four cancer had some landscaping work done recently and is divorced . He calls his ex to do the job I told him I could do the job. For I was only married to a real estate developer Which I assisted my ex. . My boyfriend calls his ex wife to over see the landscaping of HIS home which was one THEIR house which I stay often with him helping. I was competent to do this job it is a house . Not a development. He insulted , humiliated and embarrassed me. I can not stay with someone who does this to me and be happy. For all the times, I took him to doctors, countless tests, hospitals, tests and getting him on medical trails, talking to insurance and dealing with this and making things happen. I can handle a small landscaping job. I am not happy with him because of this and the lack of gratitude from his family and even him. His family leaves the ( CANCER ORDEAL ) to me SOLO, I have asked for their help and to no avail. I find this was just so insensitive and rude on his part. I am sorry. It is not cool to treat the person who do so much for you like they are so insignificant and little and the one or ones who ds so little for you like so much and are so significant.. He is going to wake up and smell the roses and I will be long gone. I have given up my life to his cancer cause even time away from my son who just turned fifteen . Show me the respect I deserve. I will not beg him or get mad it solves nothing. I will not stay where I am not appreciated and my value is devalued. . This was and is just many of the insults I have faced in this relationship. His ex wife she was late for the job like three times. So ,it was I who went to speak to the landscaper supervisor as time is money and money is time . She is retired because of my boyfriend. So , What did she look like the * Queen of the manor* and what did I look like what am I the younger winch. HA . Peasant. I want a man to see me as his Queen and not be second best and second fiddle to anyone. Sorry, I want this . I am romantic in fact an incurable romantic. She was hours late she is the Queen of course. How embarrassing! I put up with things like this and NO it is not (OK). He would love for her to be more involved but she does not give a flying Fudge. She hardly lifts a finger to help with his cancer ( like pulling teeth from a tigers mouth would be easier) . She goes on about GOD yawn.Hypocrisy is all. She dumps a boyfriend when he gets stage for cancer. You know the one she dumped, divorced my boyfriend to be with. So she dumps people when they get cancer boyfriend she left her husband for who is now dying and my boyfriend. So is is a surprise that She does nothing to help my boyfriend her ex of decades, father of her children, without having to be begged, prodded and pleas . Yes a bloody mess there is so much more that most women would walk away from all of this. Pride intact no not at all but I will be ok, I want out of this mess without being cruel or looking like I am..
Posted on: Tue, 09 Sep 2014 15:50:20 +0000
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