No Doormats Here When we work the Twelve Steps, we grow in self-respect. Abstaining from compulsive behaviors gives us new self-confidence. We no longer need to feel either inferior or superior, but we can take our proper place as an equal to those around us. Many of us used to let ourselves be manipulated because of a lack of self-respect. We may also have tried to manipulate others. Once we have taken an inventory and gotten rid of past guilts and defects, we embark on a new way of living. Just as we do not try to control the behavior of those we live with, we also do not permit them to control ours. We are responsible to our Higher Power and responsible for our own actions. We look for opportunities to serve and to give freely of what we have been given. We respect the new life that God has chosen to give us, and we intend to use it as He directs. Saying no to requests and demands, which interfere with and jeopardize our program is sometimes necessary for our recovery. Thank You, Lord, for self-respect.
Posted on: Thu, 06 Nov 2014 19:39:00 +0000
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