No one likes the feeling of failing and losing a beloved. When a relationship ends, it is automatic to feel sad, desperate and grievous. It is a difficult undertaking on both parties. It is a tough decision that has to be made or else you’ll be hurting each other more. And of course, nobody wants to keep hurting the one they love. How to move on The pain of losing a person usually sinks in after the break up. After all the things are said and done, that is when you feel the lost. And that is irreversible. Although some couples get back together, they still spent some time apart. They have moved on with their lives. And when they met again, both have grown and become more mature. There is never an easy way on how to move on. Only time can heal all wounds. Getting over a break up is a long process you have to go through to help you grow as a lover and as an individual. If you end a relationship, it does not mean you’ve failed. Failed relationships teach you valuable lessons in life. It makes you wiser. And when the time comes you are ready to risk again, you can use all of these things you have learned from your past. You will become a better partner. Reflection is very important. After a few bottles of liquor, partying, and other fun stuff you do with friends and family, take some time off, go to a relaxing vacation and reflect. Think of the happy moments you had with your partner. Recall the moments your ex has moved you the most. Try to determine how your partner had changed your life for the better. Do not just focus on the pitfalls or how your ex has hurt you. What matters most is how you both tried to make the relationship work. And the break up is a decision made for the better. If you have to cry, go on and cry. Crying will lessen the burden. Talking about how hurt you’ve been and how difficult it is for you to start moving on from a break up is helpful as well. You have to let it all out. Admitting your sadness and seeking for comfort is normal regardless of your gender. It may not be a manly thing to do for guys but it is a better solution than entering a rebound relationship. Once you have thought things over, start a new life. Channel your emotions. Convert the loneliness and pain into drive to venture on a new career or hobby. Do things you always wanted to do. Pursue dreams. Be at your best at work and be successful in your profession. Moving on after breaking up is always easier said than done. But instead of lamenting about it over and over, be inspired with your failed relationship to be a better person.Be wiser Happy Sunday@all
Posted on: Sun, 13 Jul 2014 08:20:38 +0000
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