Nobody wants to invite friends to their marriage ceremony only to get divorced after a couple of months or years. Everyone wants to get married and stay married. Here, well talk about 3 factors that are mostly behind most broken marriages and how such situations can be prevented. 1). A Submissive Wife And A Respectful Husband: Just like the Holy Bible says, wives, be submissive to your husbands. And husbands, respect your wives. This is one biblical law when not adhered to, gives birth to many dangerous family chaos. The Bible explicitly warns wives to be submissive to their husbands while husbands should respect their wives. It is a natural thing that men always feel in control, thats how God created it. No matter who a woman might be out there, back home, she owes her husband all the respect, even if she earns a far higher income than him. Being submissive here doesnt mean slavery. It is a mutual thing because the husband in return respects her as demanded by God. When you start making your husband feel lesser, thereby, projecting the scenario that youre in control, youre putting your marriage/home at risk of breaking down. A wife that wins all arguments with her husband is not wise. The home is not a law court. Avoid it. 2). Primitive Beliefs Or Inequality Gender: One major reason why marriages collapse or get sour is because most men have not transited from our grandfathers’ era when the man was the lord and the wife was there solely to do the man’s wishes and make him happy by giving him s*x, children, and services like cooking, washing, and maintaining the home. The man had the right to beat his wife, lock her up, send her away, have as many wives as he wished, sleep with as many mistresses as he liked, father as many children as he liked, without the wife complaining. The society gave the man a blank cheque to do as he wished so long as he provided for his wife and children. It was completely a man’s world. A wife had no opinion. She dared not talk when her master was talking or join him in a discussion with his friends, his family or kinsmen. The truth is that, a wife has 101% right over her husband. In as much as shes entitled to be submissive, shes also obligated to make vital opinions where and when necessary. Its high time men stop seeing women as just s*x toys or chores mercenaries. A woman has a great gender. Shes feminine because you (man) cannot do without her. Dont make her feel less human. God created her to be your respectable companion, not your slave. 3). Poor Or No S*xual Satisfaction: This is the main reason why we have most broken marriages. Most couples dont know that s*x is blessed by God for married people to enjoy. I was baffled when a lady I was counselling the other day told me her husband likes s*x so much that she got tired of giving in, believing that its a sin against God. Funny, right? If youre such a woman, youre simply destroying your home with your own hands because such a man will only get tempted to seek s*xual satisfaction outside marriage and if he eventually does, thats a problem. Only few Christian men with the fear of God would never cheat on their wives, even if they dont get the satisfaction they wish for. Think about this, a girl can stay a virgin with the hopes of rightfully getting all the s*exul pleasures from her husband when she gets married but only for him to be inactive on bed. Now, what do you expect of such woman? Infidelity, may be. Your husband/wife is supposed to be your toy on bed. Nothing is meant to be secret between you two. Its unfortunate these days that some married men go out there to seek satisfaction simply because they get s*x from their wives once in a while for God knows reason. Most married women who dont get enough from their husbands indulge in the so-called sugar-boy thing. Thats really bad. A female Pastor in Nigeria whos husband is a Senior Pastor once said in a womens gathering that before her husband mounts the pulpit to preach on Sunday mornings, she gives him good s*x on Saturday nights and in the following days service, God still uses him to perform miracles, why? because, as long as youre married, s*x is not a sin. Rather, its blessed by God.
Posted on: Wed, 23 Jul 2014 20:29:04 +0000
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