ORIENTATION IS KEY. For many years, I used to feel grotesquely fat. Every time someone made a joke about my weight - or outright said nasty things about it - I was devastated. Then, I stopped paying any attention to people who called me fat in this manner. Now, I dont feel grotesque and have an accurate self-perception. Sure, there is room for improvement. But its not stopped me from going on dates, getting laid, or whatever. The only thing that has really changed is my self-confidence and self-perception gained by paying attention to people who affirm, rather than reject, my right to exist as a happy human being. This also completely takes away any power haters (in any context) have, FYI. So reorient yourself to people who love you.
Posted on: Mon, 01 Sep 2014 20:25:41 +0000
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