Ok all kidding aside lol here are 7 reasons why you DONT pay on the first date!! Do you AGREE, or DISAGREE with the points below? And why? 1. Dating is really about data gathering. Since you can’t know his attitudes about money or how he’ll react, why risk taking the wrong action? Relax and watch what happens without prompting or paying. 2. At the beginning, a man will try to impress and please you to win you over. If he doesn’t do this, it may be a red flag that he’s not generous with his wallet or his heart. 3. Most men expect to pay – it’s part of the chase and traditional dating ritual. 4. If you offer to pay, how will you know if he’s interested or generous? If your date wants you to split the check, he’ll tell you or the bill will sit there for an hour. 5. Men are caught in a difficult social dilemma when a woman offers to pay. 6. Some men think, if a woman offered to pay, shes not interested. 7. There are plenty of takers who’d be happy to let a woman pay for as much as possible. Women often boldly rush to pay to establish their equality. But these are the same women who end up complaining their new man seems down right cheap. Well, remember who gave him the idea that you’d be willing to pay! Right up front you picked up the check, so it makes sense that he’d conclude you plan on taking care of things from that point forward. Don’t make it so easy for him! Follow on Instagram: @Gianasim
Posted on: Sat, 11 Oct 2014 00:56:22 +0000
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