Ok.. taking a minute to respond to a conversation from earier. First theses are just my thoughts. Now, that being said: I feel that if you are truly dedicated and have made a choice to be in a healthy, honest, long termed monogamous relationship, then you do NOT allow anyone to intervene. You can not expect to have a complete and total connection with your signifigant other if your holding back and or keeping a second person on the side, even be it friends. Many times the best of intentions, simple conversations, hanging out, a lunch here or there, these moments, time spent are building relationships, do not be deceived. Feelings develope and choices are made that often times turn out to be huge mistakes/regrets. Once you break your partners trust that is very dufficult to recover. So be true to yourself and no not for one second believe you can control the situation. Simply put. You can not. The best choice made IMO is to remove yourself from that tempting before it becomes a true issue. I mean the best and I will say a prayer for you. You know who you are and will not be called out. You asked me to answer. So I have. Thank you for trusting me with your questions.
Posted on: Wed, 09 Oct 2013 21:09:44 +0000
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