Okay I generally dont care what peoples opinions of me are, but if youre going to sit around publicly blasting me and talking shit on me to Facebook, then at least know all the FACTS of a situation BEFORE you decide to open your mouth and speak irrelevantly on something you know nothing of. FIRST-- I do not, and have not EVER kept my kids from seeing their father. In fact its the exact opposite. I try to encourage him to see them. I text him pictures of them, I send him videos of them doing funny and cute stuff. I send him videos of them telling him they love him and how much they miss him. All of this I do and never get any response back to. And the rare times I ever have heard from him wanting to see them HE GETS THEM! Because at the end of the day my opinion of him doesnt matter. They love him and they love to be around him, so if they get the opportunity to do so I MAKE IT HAPPEN because its what will make Roman and Remington happy. And thats all that matters to me. END OF STORY. Sometimes I get so frustrated that HE WONT SEE THEM that I send him pages of pages of emotional texts admittedly going off on him and talking shit to him, because Im so tired of having to tell my kids that they cant go see their dad today. Because Roman asks EVERY DAY if he can go to his dads today. I literally break down and cry over the fact that NICK WONT SEE MY KIDS, because THEY WANT HIM in their lives. So no dont talk down on me for keeping them from him when thats so beyond far from the truth. I wish more than anything in this world my kids could spend as much time with their father as they do with me. Secondly-- I do not, and will not EVER talk shit on him to my children. Roman hasnt seen his dad in a month now, but that doesnt stop him from talking about Nick MULTIPLE times a day. Memories of him, jokes of theirs, missing him, telling me his dads favorite cookies when we see them at the grocery store. Anything. Roman loves him and talks about him a lot. And EVERY SINGLE TIME I positively engage in the conversation with him. I dont ignore his comments, I dont respond to them with negativity, and I dont change the subject. Because as much as I hate the man MY SON LOVES HIM. And it makes him happy to talk about Nick, so it makes me happy to be able to make my child happy. Every single night at bedtime when I give my children a kiss and hug good night, I walk out of the room and before I close the door I say I love you babies. And EVERY SINGLE NIGHT Roman responds with I love you too Mom. Do you love my dad? And I always smile and say yeah baby we love your dad, too. Because I dont want me telling him no to make him feel like there is anything wrong with loving his dad or like its something he shouldnt do because I dont do it. And anytime Roman unintentionally starts saying anything bad about his dad I put a stop to it immediately. Anytime he randomly and innocently starts saying and then my dad got mad and him hit my mom, and him throw stuff, and yell I always tell him we dont talk about that stuff and when he asks why I tell him we only talk about his dad in a nice way. And theres so many times Roman randomly on his own will just tell me Mommy my dad is mean to you. but not to us. Hes nice to me and Remy. And I ALWAYS respond back with yes he is nice to you guys cause he loves you so much. SO not that I owe ANYBODY explanations for my parenting or the situation Im in I just thought that Id clear a few things up for the ones wanting to throw in their unnecessary two cents about me. And once you read this and get your facts straight go ahead and remove me from your friends list I guess. And I guess to throw a little positivity in here, THANK YOU to the people on social media, whether in my actual life or not, that I didnt need to clear this up for. If you read this and felt informed and your opinion on this matter was changed then you dont really know me to begin with because those that do dont need a break down of a shitty situation to still have a good opinion of me.
Posted on: Wed, 26 Nov 2014 23:44:48 +0000
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