Okay folks, I’m going to rant! I’m talking about young men vs. Real Men! First let me say, this is NOT directed at just one person but if you feel it is towards you then maybe you should take this to heart! Let me start by saying, it is NOT you and your bro-friend against the world, it is you and your significant other (Girlfriend, Fiancé, Wife) against the world! Your bro-friend does NOT get to decide what goes on in your relationships and neither should you get in his! Neither of you have the life skills to help each other! If you are so worried about what your friends think, then you are not a Real Man, you are a young man. The next thought is, house work will not kill you! Do you really think she enjoys dishes, laundry, cooking, cleaning toilets etc.? NOT A CHANCE! Get off your ass and help! It is not just her responsibility to take care of the home! If you want her to respect you, earn that respect by helping. You don’t have to do it all but damn it, you better do some (even if she is a stay at home Mom)! Real Men have dish-pan hands & calluses from a broom handle young men do not! If she has to ask you to do it, your opportunity for respect is already lost! You see the trash needs taken out. Only a fool or an idiot could miss 4 trash bags sitting in the kitchen. If you are either of these then why is she with you! A Real Man knows what needs to be done and does it even when he’s worked 8, 10, 12 hours. A young man says “I’m tired; I’ll take care of it later” and then leaves it for her to do. It’s okay to have your hobbies, your relaxation time with your buds, your alone time doing whatever it is you do. It is NOT okay to spend every waking hour thinking, spending money, or doing these things! You NEED to spend quality time with your significant other! She needs that time to make a connection with you. When you give her what she needs, you will see a difference in her attitude towards you! Once again remember that if she has to ask you, your opportunity for respect has already past. Real Men spend quality time, young men don’t. Step up and be a Real Man and provide for your family. And when I say family I mean your immediate family not your Mommy or Daddy. Your significant other and any children are your immediate family, they come first! They are your first concern EVERY time. Bills get paid, then what you and your family may need/want then your toys or hobbies. Your Mother and Father should have taught you this. If you do not understand this part of your relationship, you’re a young man and not a Real Man. If your significant other works, do not think her job is any easier than yours. It doesn’t matter what they do, be grateful that they are out there in the workforce helping to contribute to the household! If your significant other is a stay at home person then guess what, their job still isn’t easier than yours! Be respectful and understanding on bad days. A Real Man understands this; a young man doesn’t care enough to try. I know this sounds harsh and maybe it is a little but I also know that each young man out there has the ability to be a Real Man!
Posted on: Tue, 01 Jul 2014 01:21:34 +0000
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