One of our Darling Friends - Pankaj Pipada has been doing something really amazing with great consistency - And thats - Sharing a Report of the Sessions that Life School conducts on Sunday Mornings as well as of the all Public Programs that he attends. Thankyou Pankaj. We believe a lot of them will be able to benefit out of the reporting. Heres the reporting of the Open Program - Happiness is a Habit held on 25th Jan 2014. Machines dont come with any extra parts. Each part is important and it plays its part. So is the case of each human being. We are required in this world as to play our part and we are important. Soni is a small girl who wanted to buy puppy. The family members would take her to all the pet houses for her to select a puppy. Soni would hold the puppy close and then talk to leave it. The parents would ask Soni what was wrong the puppy she rejected. Soni would say that she is searching for the puppy size. The parents would not understand what exact size what Soni looking for as the right puppy. They lost patience and told her that this weekend would be the lady visit for the search of a puppy. They went to a pet store. Soni held the puppy close and again left the puppy saying, I am sorry, you are not the one I am looking for. Getting angry the parents took her home. They wanted to know the size of the puppy that Soni was looking for. She could not explain. She requested and convinced the parents to take her to another per store for the last time. The next weekend they went to a store and Soni again held the puppy close to her. Delighted and with spring in her strides ah came with the puppy to her parents. To the parents, the puppy she had was like many other puppies they had seen. On asking Soni said that as she held the puppy close to her, she felt the puppy sigh and thats what she was has been looking for in all the puppies. The size of our love is as big as our sighs. If there is peace in the heart, there cannot be war outside. Only if there is a war inside, can there be war outside. Pankaj Mandhane: Untold truths about Ravans life. The three most used words in the world today: Made in China. Guess the place where: Aate ho Dhaavak ki tarah, baithate ho yogi ki tarah, jaate ho Raja ki tarah. Ans: Toilet. A person to whom ideas come dime a dozen might not be good in execution of the ideas. He can give exceptional solutions but will not get involved in solution seeking. Activity: Draw a tree of your life as on today. The tree has roots. The roots signifies my strengths. A few would be strong and big like my core strengths. A few might look strong but ants might be eating it up and making it weak. While there will be a few small roots. Then comes the trunk. It is how the world sees me. It is the perception of the world about me. Then comes the leaves. Leaves get the necessary sunlight & oxygen for the tree. The leaves of this tree are the people on whom I can fall back upon in challenging times. Flowers look beautiful. That is what magnifies people to the tree. What are the qualities in me which will attract people towards me. Fruits are the good things that I have which I can share with the world. The three never keeps the fruits with itself. The results I produce is my contribution to the society. After this redraw the tree of the future. The tree should be about what I visualize my life to be. Three stages of success and peoples understanding of it in life: Stage 1: I chase success believing that it will make me happy. 95% people live this kind of life Stage 2: I realize that success is not making me happy. 4% people reach this stage of life. Stage 3: I choose to be happy and get all the success I want in my life. Only 1% people experience this in life. In our childhood our parents have told us that if we are not successful, people will not respect us. When we are successful we realize that all the success does not make us happy. When I believe that success will give me happiness I chase success. I new job, a new house, a new car and a new..a new and a new does not make me happy. We have a vey bad BNQ (Bad News Quotient). We just enjoys good news and good feed backs. People tend to look down upon others who are little less privileged. Happiness is a decision. Pleasure is dependent on the world. Excess of pleasure always leads to pain and misery. When we feel success will give is happiness, we care less for people. Relationships dont matter to us anymore. When somebody does not cooperate the way I want, every contribution made by the other person goes for a toss and I just loose it. When I realize that success is not the cause of my happiness and I observe, eventually I realize that happiness is a choice. I decide to be happy and then chase all the success I want. If I get success, I am happy, if I dont I am still happy. We act for two reasons: 1) to get what I dont have & 2) to give what I already have. I can be absolutely happy if I can laugh at myself. Nobody in this world can hurt me if I can laugh at myself. Narens discussion with his friend Madan who is very fond of coffee lead to a beautiful learning: Anything in life which is worth it, is worth the effort. Everything comes at a price. The focus in any relationship should be what can I do for you and never what can you do for me. What is the price that I am willing to pay for my happiness. What is a habit? For doing anything where I dont use my intelligence, it is a habit for me. Anything which is spontaneous is a habit. How about making Happiness a Habit. Activity: Write Ten things in me, that makes me great. 1) Happiness, my ability to be happy all the time. 2) ...... 10) Let the 1st thing be Happiness. Even if I overtake 100 cars, there will still be another car ahead of me. After every success, I will have another success to chase. This will cause misery to me. 1) Never stand in front of the person who wants to fight. Stand next to them. 2) Ask them frequently, I need your help, will you help me please? 3) Whenever they are talking to us, even if we disagree, nod your head. After some time even they nod with you. With loads of love and Gratitude, Life School
Posted on: Mon, 27 Jan 2014 08:11:15 +0000
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