One thing I wish couples going through ‘trying times’ would understand is the importance of ‘oneness of their spirits’ …a very formidable ‘life force’. Those who stick together (in such situations) always have happy stories. It is not a period for selfish and ‘back yard’ pursuits-that often live your better half in the dark-such will dispense your energies in different (often opposite) directions and create a wedge between your spirits. Once your spirits are distant, the purpose of ‘the oneness of spirit’ (which is a prerequisite for any positive result at all) will be defeated. Almost every situation in life has a spiritual law governing it. Has it not been said that energy flows where intention is? Why do you think that those who have been a part of each other’s life (in marriage) for a long time are most likely to die within a short period of each other’s demise? How about the explanation of a sick person (only) responding to treatment when his or her ‘better half’ is by their bed side? Why do you think some people will most likely have a strange sensation when their better half is in trouble? Or have you not heard that happily married persons have higher shots at longevity? The above scenarios can only perpetuate where the bond between the spirits of those in a union is strong. That is, the partners have become one-in spirit and it takes absolute openness with one another-to achieve that. That should give you an idea of ‘how far’ couples (whose spirits are together) can go- in any challenging situation. One big challenge that the marital institution is facing today is that most people are married to those their spirits are distant from. That is why a ‘lovey dovey’ couple would wake up one day and become strangers (often accompanied by so much bad blood) to each other. Otherwise, how does one explain some messy divorces? Where the spirits are one -most marriages will be ‘pure walk in the park’-quote me! Be careful what advice you allow filter into your hearing. Your challenges do not worry your spouse any less than ‘it’ eats you up. Therefore, whatever option that is suggested to you and you have to explore it, ensure it involves ‘carrying your partner along’. Anything less is betrayal. Couples should learn to stand by each other, seek solutions together and carry each other along-every step of the way. -Chukwuneta Obiageli.
Posted on: Wed, 19 Mar 2014 06:40:37 +0000
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