One way to move beyond most seeming problems in life is to become - TopicsExpress

One way to move beyond most seeming problems in life is to become ok with it. A major way to keep a problem in life is to resist it. Being ok with it does not mean letting people keep treat you like crap or hurting you. I am talking about a perceived belief in your life that you think is a problem. After becoming ok with a thought or an issue, it might either pass quickly, or you will suddenly have the tools to deal with it. It is way harder to get the tools when you are still in resistance to a problem. In that place, you are still surviving, and you are unconsciously labeling the problem as bigger than you. You cant be OK with something so that it will leave. You have to actually be ok with it, with no agenda. Until you are ok with something, it may continue to drive you crazy. So far, in my life, I have discovered that every problem was a calling for me to become something bigger and more accepting than I was before the problem. When I become loving enough to truly accept the problem in my entire body, it often went away. Obviously this might not be true with everything, but it sure seems to apply to 99 percent of the crap that we are worried about, almost 24 hours a day. I believe the most obvious thing we are here to do is evolve. We would never expand without problems. When life is great, we have nothing to fix. But when a problem shows up, you can just realize that you are way bigger than this problem and you are allowed to evolve into that. A problem often could mean that the level of the life that you have been living is dying. Maybe you are supposed to become something so great that this problem would not even be on the radar at that stage. When I was a kid I listened to Milli Vanilli.