Our first morning post from a fellow BonusMom: I need advice from this group. I got married at 18 and had 3 kids by the age of 25. Was divorced after 15yrs of marriage. Was a single mom for 7 yrs before I remarried and married the man of my dreams, but theres just one problem.... He has an evil ex wife and 2 beautiful little girls (5 & 7 yrs old). I love my SDs and have tried to make things work with their NM, but things seem to get worse. My wonderful husband is back in court with BM after losing his well paid job, dealing with disability and trying to make ends meet for his girls and our home. Long story short... Is it wrong of me not to want to be involved in what goes on with his ex and his girls? Dont get me wrong, I love the girls, but I raised my kids alone and now they are older and I felt like I could breathe. My husband says that my SDs need a mother like me and he expects me to play a role that I dont want or need to have anymore. I dont want to replace their mom or take over a responsibility that is not meant for me. He needs to be their dad and Im supportive to what he needs and wants to do with them. Just dont get why he gets upset when I say he can do things alone with his girls when he gets them twice a month or when I want to spend quality time alone with my kids. Am I wrong for how I feel or think?
Posted on: Thu, 30 Jan 2014 14:46:33 +0000
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