PLEASE I NEED YOUR ADVISE Im Older Than Him, But He Is Hell Bent On Marrying Me! Please I need your candid advice with constructive criticism from mature minds. I met this guy during my NYSC, we were just mere acquaintances then, nothing amorous existed between us until I rounded up my service year and left. He was a batch “A” corper while I was a Batch “C” corper that preceded his batch. While back in Lagos and 8 months after my service, I got a call from this guy who professed his true love and genuine feelings towards me and he wanted nothing else but marriage. I don’t like to be rushed into anything, so I told him that we should be friends. Reluctantly, he accepted, but kept pressurizing me to accept him as my fiancé, but I was sceptical cos I just didn’t feel right within me to marry a man 5 years younger than me! Besides, I am a mother of a 14-year-old boy, (I lost my husband at 26). Now, its been 4years and he still hasnt given up on me even after telling him am a mother and older than him! I feel he is too young to be a stepfather to 14 years asides this, from my interaction with him, I noticed that Im more exposed and experienced than he is. I prefer a man who is much older to be a stepfather and who is more knowledgeable and has more exposure, experience so that I can look up to him as my master! This guy is going crazy about me and I am feeling sorry for him but my decision to put him a friend zone still stands, nothing intimate exists between us. He lives in a different state, his parents and siblings are all aware of our friendship, sometimes I speak with his mum. Apart from the age difference, he is a greatest fan of T.B. Joshua and hopes to become a member of his church some day and that is the last place I want to be because I am a Catholic. Please your advice would be genuinely appreciated.
Posted on: Mon, 17 Mar 2014 07:18:57 +0000
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