PROJECTION FROM OTHERS Ever noticed someone talking to you and they seem to justify themselves but somehow also question you a lot? What is actually happening is they are projecting themselves onto you. So what they will do is blame you, make you feel guilty, not ever be genuinely happy for you, talk in derogatory ways about others - anything in order to make themselves appear better. They tend to lack ownership of their own challenges. If someone is worse off in their minds they feel better. They question you a lot in order to 1. make you question yourself and 2. because they want to dish the the dirt about you to others - again to make themselves look and feel better. Projection is all about taking the blame away from themselves and placing it firmly on a scapegoats shoulders. The scapegoat is usually someone who is vulnerable, quiet, gentle, although can be anyone the person feels inferior to. Again it is this lack of ownership these people possess. It has nothing to do with you taking on the projection, owning it or having it in your life in any way at all. It is all about them. It is quite interesting to just watch and observe this behaviour because it doesnt cease even with no input from another person. This is because it is all about the person projecting themselves onto others. In truth they are telling you all about them. It really can be quite revealing. When you remove yourself from people like this you are creating space for healthy and equal exchanges. Look for qualities that inspire you, that are uplifting. True friends listen to you, support you and genuinely love and care for you. You are very blessed indeed to have even just one friend who gets you. If you would like a Tarot Reading and Guidance Session with Machaela please send a message via Guiding Light Australias Facebook page.
Posted on: Sat, 18 Jan 2014 10:37:57 +0000
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