Part Deux: FLIRTING ADVISORY | This is for women. Someone said since I did one for men, I must do one for women. You asked for it. 10 ways to flirt with your man (and, YES! These count as flirting... they help set the tone for romance): 1. You must know how to cook at least 3 dishes that will make the mans toes curl into a fist. One should be a good dessert. Im saying that as the man consumes the food, he should be oohing ahhing and moaning. LOL 2. If sports is your mans thing, learn the game. Dont compete with the sport. Be cool with it. Encourage it. Learn to trash talk in fun. 3. Be quiet. Be quiet. Be quiet - sometimes. It hurts... LOL but... we arent always right. Our way isnt always the best way. When we think it is, we are control freaks. 4. If the man is driving, relax and enjoy the ride. Dont dictate the route. You dont have to deal with traffic... so chill. Enjoy being chauffeured. Lay your seat back and dont even watch the road. When you get to your destination, thank him for driving. 5. Respect the man. Esteem him. Value his opinion. Dont ask for his opinion and then argue with him for having one. Listen. Dont interrupt him. 6. Be sweet toward him. If you are sweeter to your pastor, theres a problem. Be as sweet to your man, if not sweeter. If you wouldnt say things to the man of God, dont say them to your man. 7. Have outside interests. Dont make the man the center of your universe. Give him breathing room. Learn how to be easy going. Dont be a balls buster. 8. This is a sore subject... but... keep it tight and right. I know. It can be a REAL battle. Just because the man doesnt care if you gain weight, it doesnt mean you shouldnt care. The man loves you for you... no matter your size. Thats good! AMEN. However, we still should work to be healthy and shapely. Nobody is saying be a size 6... but dont let yourself go either. Keep resisting that. Look good... for yourself and your mate. 9. Keep a clean home. Get a housekeeper, if necessary. 10. Deal with your issues. Dont hold grudges and make the man pay for some mess in the past. Appreciate having a good mate. There was a time when you didnt. Ok... I know all men are different... this is just a guide to help us start somewhere. I purposely left some things off this list but be imaginative and creative!
Posted on: Tue, 05 Aug 2014 04:39:08 +0000
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