QUESTION YOUR VALUES… It’s an INBOX that I was tagged in, a few days back. Although, I am not privy to ‘what led to what’ but the contents of that INBOX (from a HURTING sister) points to BETRAYAL IN FRIENDSHIP… thanks to MALICIOUS TALES. I have always maintained that I am the one that should question my values the moment someone begins to come to me with malicious tales about others. And believe it or not…at the root of every gossip, malicious tale and ugly behaviour towards another is ENVY! Can we begin to watch the THOUGHTS we habour towards others? You must NOT be friends with every one that comes your way in life but you also do not have to allow yourself to harbour less than noble thoughts towards him/her. I am so good at isolating individuals that I am not comfortable harbouring in my personal space but guess what? God forbid I harbour less than noble thoughts towards them…as a matter of fact, I will be the first to point that, which will benefit them- their way…yet, I will rather do my GOOD from a safe distance. Certain ‘relating’ are peaceful from a distance. Since I learned this …I have become adept at minimizing every form of stress-as far as ‘friendship’ is concerned. LADIES, do we realize that we can do better for, to and with each other-even without being close? There are people whom the only thing they have in common with their supposed friends is SOMEONE they gossip about. But I advise the ‘affected’ to turn a blind eye to such friendships-they seldom last. And if another VICTIM is not (quickly) found for such friendships to be sustained… the UGLINESS of things, is better imagined…if and when such friendship packs up. Some people are incapable of NOT aiding and abetting DRAMA wherever they find themselves. The human mind is nurtured with DELIBERATE positive thoughts and part of that comes from READING positive stuffs. A lot of people don’t read and expecting a worthy attitude from such persons is like expecting basket to hold water. Some LADIES do not realize that INTELLIGENCE adds to a woman’s attraction to MEN…they have not been able to figure out why they get DUMPED serially amidst all the Cambodian weave-ons, EMERGENCY yellow skin and expensive wears…my sister, there is more to a woman’s worth! Let’s also call to question the way we carry ourselves. As a MARRIED WOMAN-you shouldn’t be encouraging SLEAZY MOVES from MEN…it is called RESPECTING your marital status and that man you call a husband. Unfortunately, some supposed MARRIED FOLKS are even MORE AVAILABLE than the SINGLE AND SEARCHING. It is also an INDICTMENT for the man in a woman’s life-if his woman ONLY feels appreciated /cherished from the gestures of other men-towards her…a man’s biggest mistake is giving another man an opportunity to make his woman smile!
Posted on: Sat, 08 Mar 2014 04:08:55 +0000
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