QUESTION from the inbox: Im 26yrs old. My dad is about to get out after 14 years. He has spent pretty much my whole life in there but this last stretch was 14 I grew up in family visits and my mom is madly devoted to her husband of 27 years. Never skipped a beat! Phone call packages visits whatever he needed. 6 kids and 26 years later we are bracing ourselves for another chance with our daddy... im not one to reach out but im for once curious of others opinions. Suggestions. Experience. My mom passed her loyalty and devotion to me and I myself am with a inmate doing 15 were down 10. My father knows of us. My father is NOT ok w it what so ever. The only reason I think my fiance is breathing is because i told my father Id have nothing to do with him. My mother has told him the same. LOVE IS LOVE. I dont feel he has a right to judge my love. How can you be ok dragging your baby girl through all this all these years and have any right to say anything agenst all that you showed me?!?! My dad is going to home in less than a month, we havent talked in a week and thats not like us. My fiance is a reputable man and like my father is about respect and loyalty. He had no idea I was a inmate daughter until after we fell deeply in love (I didnt feel I had to tell him?!) He loves me and is the best man and we are so lucky to have found one another agents the odds. He respects my father and is willing to not throw this in his face and willing to wait to let my daddy walk me down the isle. (As much as both of us really dont want to) I hate this. I want a family visit with my husband I want to announce my love to the world and give him all of me and carry his last name! Regardless we are strong every single day. But this is not fair to me. Am I wrong? Am I being one sided? Am I missing something? I talk to my dad every single day and to not speak to him for a week... I wont call because of my pride. And I know its not his pride because he has none with us kids. Im confused and dont know what to think so it only makes me feel to not give a shit. Idk ughhhhh, insight please? #iLoveMyInmate
Posted on: Wed, 21 May 2014 17:10:00 +0000
Trending Topics
Recently Viewed Topics
© 2015