RANT WARNING Why does it seem like everyone insists on either blaming somebody else for their problems or pointing to the problems of other people as a reason why they did something or cant do something? There is and always will be a universal truth: You are your own person and make your own choices. Do not EVER let the choices and opinions of others dictate your life without careful consideration on your part. Maybe a list of guidelines will help? 1 (and most important) Know your own opinion and viewpoint on the subject in question. IF YOU DONT: Stop now and evaluate what YOUR opinion is and then come back to the scenario at hand. 2) Make sure your opinion is based solidly on facts. At a minimum make sure your opinion is based solidly on things that you BELIEVE to be fact. 3) Be open to the (very real) possibility that you are wrong or that your opinion is not actually based on facts but rather information that you mistakenly understood as fact. 4) Fight for your opinion. 5) Nothing in life worth having is given to you with nothing in return. 6 (and most important) Every choice is one that you will live with for the rest of your life so get used to it. Regret serves no purpose other than to cloud your decision making process in the future. If you make a bad decision, learn every ounce of information you can from it and move on with your life with those new tools in your tool box. Whew! Rant time apparently. Always remember: You are the person who decides how to live your life. Make it something you are proud of!
Posted on: Fri, 26 Sep 2014 03:21:12 +0000
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