RED SIGNALS IN MARRIAGE. Marriage is a union of a man and a woman to live as husband and wife. In the beginning of marriage it is full of sweetness and enjoyment and to sustain this intimacy the couple should be careful to avoid some certain things that may stop their joy. The things that when lacking shows a red flag in marriage are listed although the list is inexhaustible include; ONENESS: When the bible was talking about a man and a woman He said the two shall come together as one. In all they do their must be unity. The must Learn to pray together because a family that prays together stays together. The couple must learn to sleep in one bed ,no matter how large the house is. The couple must eat together,they must make use of a dinning and a dish if possible at same time. The must bath together. COMMUNICATION: This favors the women because they are in the habit of talking. For the couple to remain in their relationship the must learn to bridge every communication gap. For in this they will be open to each together and their won’t be secrecy and lies. COMPARISM: The couple must learn not to compare each other to other couple. In terms of dressing, if your spouse do not meet up your taste, you can help him/her during dressing. It is wrong to correct your spouse in the public because at the end of the day you will embarrass him/her and thus you will embarrass yourself because both of you are one. If him/her do not eat, talk, walk, behave, etc. well, you teach him/her to do so. But when criticizing let it be a constructive and not destructive. ARROGANCY/NAGGING: Men with the mentality of “I am the head” will always be found rude to the wife, commanding her as if she is not a human being. The wife in her own part must not be sauce to the husband. The both must learn to respect each other. Soft answer turns away wrath but a harsh word stirs up anger.[Prov. 15:1] Understanding: The couple must learn each other’s character, knowing what, where and when each of themare in the mood for anything, their likes and dislikes. ROMANCE: Sweet words, petting, pampering, lovely play are not to be neglected in marriage. This should not be done only in the early stage of marriage but should continue even when children must have arrived. With this the marriage is ever fresh. Others: Give no room for suspicion;be forward and transparent in all your ways. Learn to say thank you not by body language or attitude but in words. Appreciate your spouse when he/she does something excellent. Have one mind over every issue to avoid any of the couple countering the opinion/view of the other or else the family will breakdown especially when the children are around. Looking out for this will help to make a home and not a house, meaning we will have a better church in a better society.
Posted on: Tue, 11 Jun 2013 18:21:51 +0000
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