RELATIONSHIP & LOVE (2) Last time I talked about the little, little bits or you might as well say tips that help you with your relationship or friendship. I thank you for you messages and comments on my blog. These passages can be gotten from my blog or my facebook wall Thank You So I’m going to continue with this: Try setting priority to what you do; taking examples from relationships today, most couples tend to set work or some other thing before their budding relationship. Their partners usually get the word “busy”, no matter how understanding your partner might be it doesn’t change the fact that he is human and would start thinking otherwise about your recent activities, they also tend to start feeling like they have now become an option…..this tends to bring the issue of infidelity in a relationship. Advice: no matter how busy you are, try to find time ; text or call you partner at least make them feel special , no amount of excuse can be enough to thwart what their mind have already concocted Being there for your loved one; it helps. You ask your self a times “why relationship?” my friend I’ll tell you the answer – the main aim of relationship is companionship. Case study is ‘the kind of love between old couples who are in their 70’s or 80’s’ When all the euphoria of their youthful love fades what remains is the companionship/friendship they have between themselves. Advice: Try, no matters how hard, far or near try to be there for your partner. I talked last time about mutual understanding, I would still like to emphasize on that issue it sounds easy but hard to put into practice (just like one of the ten commandments “thou shall not lie”) . There’s nothing as pleasing/encouraging then have someone who understands everything about you, understands why you act the way you do, your way of life. Doesn’t have to argue with most of the decision you make Advice: Always make sure you explain to his/her understanding….never expect him/her to understand fully after you have taking such actions. Don’t give in to speedy assumptions; try understanding situations before assuming…..assumptions kills. It’s been rated No 1 relationship killer of the 21st century. - Eluwa Emmanuel For commentaries: email me Luwie93@gmail +2348063609555
Posted on: Thu, 01 Aug 2013 15:23:59 +0000
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