***Reader Needs Advice*** NO BASHING!!! I would like some advise and not sure where on the site to post for that..... My ex husband and I were married in 2004. In 2009 he cheated on me. We managed to work it out at everything seemed fine. In 2010 he cheated again and we separated. For a few months we continued to talk everyday and he said he just needed to do things on his own for awhile but had every intention of coming home to me. We continued to sleep together and talk everyday. Then I found out the girl he cheated with was pregnant. He cried and said he now felt trapped but still loved me. I filed for divorce the next day. We stopped talking until we had to go to court. When we saw each other neither of us could go thru with the divorce. We began seeing each other again but he was living with her. We continued to see each other and talk every day for months. A few months after she had the child she figures it out. All along he was saying they dont get along. He is just waiting for her to leave. We stopped seeing each other for about a month but he couldnt stay away. Always 4 to 6 weeks and he would call. Finally after she kept finding out she paid for the divorce but we still continued to be together. Then they split but she continues to live with him. That went on for 2 years. This past spring everything blew up and he decided to try and make something work with her for the sake if his son. I backed off. 6 weeks later he couldnt take it anymore and called me. He said I am his other half and cant live without me. I insisted he tell her everything or I wanted nothing to do with it. He did. He told her how he feels and cant let me go. Now she is using his son and any trick she can to try to keep him. Also calling me a home wrecker. Mind u I was his wife. We had a family. He had raises my children for 7 years and has continued to be apart of their lives after we split. I know it hurts him deeply to think he cant be with his son everyday but I am the one he loves. Now she says to be with his son he has to not only give me up but also the kids he ha raised and loves for 11 years. Part of me thinks I should walk away for his child but the other part says he is the love of my life and I am his and I should hold on. What should I do
Posted on: Thu, 28 Aug 2014 13:39:30 +0000