***Reader Needs Advice*** NO BASHING!!! Im 2004 I started working at the place I met my now ex husband. I thought he was gorgeous and funny and I wanted him more than anything. I was shy at the time and didnt know much about him but we had a mutual friend so I would sometimes suit with them at lunch and listened to them. I was going through things with the guy I had been seeing and I was talking to my friend about it and he said he had someone perfect for me. I rolled my eyes and asked him who and he mentioned T. I told him he was out of his mind that he was too good-looking for me and he told me I was crazy. That night we all went to waffle house and talked for hours. T looked like a bus hit him because his girlfriend had just ended things and he want taking it well. Months pass and we were hanging out more and more. He was spending the night at my house I made dinner, did his laundry, etc. After about 9 months we were talking and he said something about not being in a relationship. I asked him what we were and he just looked at me and kept saying he didnt want to be in a relationship. He picked all his things that were in my house and went back to his moms. I was crushed but whatever I found someone that did want a relationship that was perfect for me. T didnt like that. He kept coming around after a couple of weeks to the point where the guy I was with bowed out and did he couldnt take my ex trying to come around all the time. T said he could see that I was all he wanted and he wanted to get married and have kids etc. 2006 we got engaged and 2007 we were married. I adored this man. He was everything to me. I was on cloud 9 everyday. We tried to get pregnant but were having problems. Finally in 2008 I went to a specialist and found out I would have to go through in vitro fertilization. I got a second job and worked all the time. His job was very strenuous and I didnt want to put that burden on him. He had to jobs when we meet and I hated setting him so drained. So here I was working basically 2 full time jobs trying different treatments. We didnt see each other much and he was hanging out with friends I didnt care for which started us arguing. The little time I did get to see him they wanted him to do stuff for them. I started the in vitro process with was very painful and very emotionally draining. Constant shots in hips, stomach, and legs multiple times a day. My mom gave us $10,000 to do the procedure. We went in and they took my eggs and fertilized them which was the most horrible part for me. Almost a week later they called early in the morning and said I had to be at the office at 7am no later that the embryos her ready. I was so excited. He was still sleeping so I was going to tell him when I got home from work that everything was perfect and we were ready. I thought I had an awesome marriage and finally getting pregnant would make it perfect. That night when I got home from work all of his things were gone. Long story short he had fallen in love with his friends sister while I was working my tail off to get pregnant with our child. I went through with the procedure the next morning not knowing yet about the homewrecker. A child is all I ever wanted and I want giving it up after coming so far. Two weeks later I found out I was pregnant. He would come around here and there saying he didnt know what he wanted. I begged him not to leave. I lost one of the twins in within the first to month from stress. I begged her to leave us alone and let us have a chance to be a family. She kept telling me he didnt even want the baby that I had stole his sperm. Smh I had my baby 2 months early in Jan 2010 and almost died from complications. He was there but the next year but he was far from being the dad I wanted her to have due to I had court orders keeping the homewrecker away from my baby. Here it is 2014 and in the last year he has actually stepped up and is there for her more now. A month ago we actually had our first outing just the three of us and the look of happiness on her face made it with it. My boyfriend of a year and a half is very supportive and encourages me to do stuff so she can see everyone getting along and that she is very loved. My ex husband on the other hand is getting a beat down from karma that is so horrible I feel sorry for him sometimes. She quit working a year ago so he is providing for her and two of her three kids none of which are his. They live in a filthy apartment that she doesnt clean but complains that its dirty. She does nothing for him. As soon as he gets home from work she leaves him with her kids and goes to get friends till all hours of the morning. He came over to see his daughter last night and tells me she she is fixing to start working as a stripper at the local strip club which honestly I have no clue how she landed that job and apparently she has a new friend that shes been spending time with. I love karma...
Posted on: Fri, 25 Apr 2014 13:45:00 +0000
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