***Reader Needs Advice*** NO BASHING!!! Ive been with my husband 10 yrs now (married for 5). Weve always had a very strong, trusting relationship and have never really argued. A year ago he started a new job and barely had any free time. At the same time I met a girl through work and we became close. This year she started hanging out more and more with us both. By this point me and my husband had drifted as partners but were still happy in our lives. 2 months ago we sat down and addressed the issues we had and both wanted to work at our marriage and spend time as a couple rather than always with friends. Out of the blue this particular friend turned on me and started being really awful. Things got bad between me and my husband and we decided on a weeks break just to reflect and calm down. During this break she absolutely attacked me, yet text him everyday being the supportive friend she even voiced her opinion that he should just walk away. Anyway, after a few days he came home, hed missed me and wanted to work things out. She then text him giving him an ultimatum, her friendship, or me. He told her to go away (or words to that affect) and leave us alone. She then text me threatening me and saying I didnt deserve him. Am I right in thinking she was after my man, maybe jealous of the lifestyle we have? Shes always made it clear she has no interest in a relationship yet has dates all the time with wealthy, successful guys. Me and the hubby are fine now, over the worst, but I just cant get her out of my head trying to understand her motives. It really hurts that a friend would do that. Im just after view points and maybe some advice on how to forget about her. Thanks.
Posted on: Sun, 20 Apr 2014 23:46:01 +0000