Realize and accept that you have the same rights as other people. For example, you have a right to feel hurt, to say no, to want something, to stand up for yourself, to do what you need for your self development, to be yourself, to be confident, to get what you want, and so forth. You also have a right to be happy, silly, serious, and so forth. You will always meet people who believe that the occasion calls for a different emotion, a different approach or a different way of being, mostly because that is what theyre habituated to and comfortable with, and if they also happen to be used to either getting their own way or scolding a lot, theyll try it on. Recognize the attempt to efface your need in pursuit of boosting their need. Your feelings are as valid as anyone elses, so dont let such people belittle you. Instead, see yourself as the wonderful person that you are. ~Katy~
Posted on: Tue, 30 Dec 2014 22:45:00 +0000