Reflect non aggression in your mind, it does not mean you are weak, it just means your more of a human than someone who attracts violence in their life. It is wise to know self defense but hope to never have to use it, it is best to win without having to confront, it is more prudent to not get caught into other peoples drama. A wise person can become a fool if they forget compassion towards those beings who are troubled but we do not need to feed their negativity but reacting, we should be proactive and do not ignore them but do not also feed into their bad behavior by getting into their drama. When confronted with an aggressive person the best thing to do is disengage as fast as possible and avoid physical confrontation. There is no point in trying to puff yourself big and try to be superior to others, the ego wants this but when you let go of ego you can have compassion towards those who are troubled. A person with right thinking will be able to avoid violence just be speaking clearly, not ignoring the other person and disengaging fast. Ask them why they did something, do not judge their response or talk over them, let them explain, they get bored with this if they are looking for a fight and move on fast. When they realize what they did they tend to not want to go over the line, when you ask them why they have to think, when they think they go, oh if I was in that place I would not wish to kick the chair, it may disrupt someone else meditation. The biggest think is to show interest in the other person while showing disinterest in the bad behavior, do not cuss or be really bad just ask why they did what they did. Here is an example of what I am talking about: Drunk man kicks the legs of your chair Response 1: You bastard I should kick your a-s, looking big. Results 1: Drunk fellow proceeds to hit you and you both get in trouble and kicked out of the bar. Response 2: Why you kick my chair? You get up and point to the legs of the chair like it is bothering you, you return to your seat focused on him but not show approval to the bad behavior. Results 2: He puffs his chest a bit tells you to get it on, realizes you are not interested in a fight and finds someone else to bug. He goes off in a huff all upset but your peace of mind remains. Remember this does not mean every person will respond to you in this manner and if the other person presses you and get violent by pushing you off the chair then you have the right to defend yourself, you can either confront him or you can leave the area seeking help, it is more wise to attempt to leave completely if you the area. Violence should be avoided unless he keeps pressing you then you have to defend yourself. Most people will not press for a fight against someone who is not interested in a fight.
Posted on: Mon, 17 Nov 2014 23:50:23 +0000
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